One of my friends is grieving. She's going through a major loss, and although she is very guarded with her emotions, I can see that she is hurting deeply. I wish there were something I could do to take the pain away, but as is usually the case, all I can offer is a sympathetic ear, words of compassion, and an endless supply of hugs. Nothing, and everything.
I hate when people suffer. I've dedicated my working life to doing what I can to minimize suffering, and I try in all my interactions with people to be kind. To not add anything further to the burdens that people already carry. So when I see people acting cruelly, I am overwhelmed by the question "why?". Why do billionaires underpay their employees and not allow them bathroom breaks? Why do teenagers beat up homeless people? Why do jerks go onto Twitter and attack perfectly wonderful personal finance bloggers about their decisions to buy new cars?
Is it just a failure of empathy? A failure to see the humanity of the other person and give a shit about what they're going through? And, if it is, how do people get so broken that they don't care about the pain they cause others?